An invitation to build a brighter future from Kupona’s Executive Director

My husband and I are expecting our first child in September. Next Mother’s Day, I will be a mother.

A combination of joy and fear
Just writing that fills me with both joy and fear. Joy because this is something we’ve wanted for a long time. Fear because there are so many unknowns. What kind of mom will I be? How will I juggle a career I love, personal relationships, being part of my community and being a mom? What will change?

Abbey shares a joke with recovering fistula patients during her recent trip to CCBRT

During my recent trip to Tanzania, I heard stories from fistula patients at CCBRT and listened as CCBRT staff shared first-hand accounts of women who gave birth in Dar es Salaam healthcare facilities.

My fears seemed insignificant in comparison to their stories of loss, grief and survival. My fears focus on the future. For the women of Tanzania, their fears are more immediate. Will they come out of their delivery unscathed? Will their baby survive delivery? Will they?

Tanzania is one of the most dangerous places in the world to become a mother, with 8,000 women dying every year from complications during pregnancy and childbirth. That’s an average of 22 women who die every day. If I lived in Tanzania, would I be one of the 22?

Drastically different expectations
In the U.S., like most developed countries, we expect a certain standard of medical care. As a mother-to-be, I expect to be treated with respect. I expect that the hospital and medical staff will be prepared with the requisite skills, supplies and equipment to take care of my baby and me. I expect that my husband will be by my side. I expect to leave the hospital with a healthy child, ready to face those fears about life and parenting.

In Tanzania, mothers-to-be expect to share a hospital bed with two or three other women. They expect to deliver alone because there’s no space for the father or family to provide moral support. Low expectations among mothers-to-be in Tanzania are the status quo.

But, why should Tanzanian mothers expect so much less than I do?

Building a brighter future
This Mother’s Day, Kupona’s team has reflected on what motherhood means to us, and why we’re inspired to give to Kupona. Sami is inspired that we are taking luck out of the equation for women like Malela and Salma. Alex sees the opportunity to give more women the chance to celebrate their first Mother’s Day. I’m inspired by the potential for a brighter future. We are strengthening the healthcare system for generations of mothers to come. Together with our partner, CCBRT, we are improving the quality of care at existing public healthcare facilities in Dar es Salaam, while simultaneously completing a new maternity and newborn hospital that will change the face of maternal healthcare in the region. We are raising the bar for quality healthcare in Tanzania.

Every mother deserves the chance to meet her newborn child.
I give to Kupona because I know that in a different time and place, I could be one of the 22 women who needlessly die in childbirth, every day. I give because I am fortunate to be able to focus on the future, and what it will mean to become a mother. I give in honor of my mother, who continues to inspire me every day. And I give because I know we are creating a stronger healthcare system in Tanzania.

Join me to invest in building a brighter future for mothers in Tanzania.

Together, we are giving more mothers-to-be the opportunity to look ahead to the future. We are raising their expectations, and giving them the quality of care that they deserve.

Abbey and her mom, Debby had the opportunity to dream about the future.

Wishing you and your family a very Happy Mother’s Day!

With gratitude,
Abbey

Abbey Kocan
Executive Director, Kupona Foundation

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Through Monday, May 11th, every donation made in honor of a mother will be entered into our prize drawing. The winner will receive a gift from the Mabinti Center, winner of Accessories Designer of the Year at Swahili Fashion Week 2014 Just write ‘In honor of {insert Mom’s name here}’ in your donation description for her chance to win!

Giving Tanzanian mothers the chance to be mums

Photo credit: Benjamin Eagle

Last year, 8,000 Tanzanian women did not get the chance to become mums.
Being a ‘good mum’ means different things to different people. For a start, as Kupona’s resident Brit, I’m the only person using the word ‘mum’ instead of ‘mom’. Does a good mum stay at home, or does she work full-time? Does she only purchase healthy food, or does she allow her children to eat sugary treats? Should she even worry about what it means to be ‘a good mum’ to her children?

I’m not a mother yet, but if there’s one thing I’ve learned during my time at Kupona, it’s that if I have the opportunity to worry about the kind of mum I will be, I’ll be a lucky woman.

Every year in Tanzania, 8,000 women die as a result of complications in pregnancy or childbirth. That’s 8,000 women every year who won’t find out what kind of mother they will be to their children.

Every mother deserves the chance to meet her newborn child.
If you’re a regular subscriber to Kupona’s updates, you’ll have read that statement and seen this statistic before: 8,000 maternal deaths in Tanzania every year. Until that number falls to zero, we’ll be repeating it a lot. I’m supporting Kupona Foundation this Mother’s Day because I’ve seen a real opportunity to get that number to zero.

Strengthening the System
In one of Africa’s fastest growing cities, Dar es Salaam, healthcare providers are faced with rapid population growth and increasing demand for services. Women in labor encounter delivery wards that are overcrowded and under-equipped, and staff that are under-trained and overworked.

By decongesting overcrowded wards, training healthcare workers, and improving infrastructure, our implementing partner, CCBRT, helps thousands of mothers meet their newborns. Every day, we draw closer to giving thousands of women the opportunity to celebrate their first Mother’s Day.

My wonderful Mum, Alison, got the chance to build a happy, healthy future for our family.

This Mother’s Day I am making a donation to Kupona Foundation in honor of my mum. When I was born, she had certain decisions to make. In a career where working part-time was simply not an option, she decided to go back to work full-time when I was 3-months old. Some may frown upon her decision: I personally find it inspirational. Wherever you stand, one thing is for sure: my mum could choose what kind of mother she wanted to be. That’s the kind of choice that every expectant mother should be able to make. Access to high quality, respectful maternal healthcare sets both mother and baby up to lead healthy lives, and to build a promising future. This should not be a privilege. It should be a right.

Join me, and donate in honor of a mother in your life today.

With gratitude,
Alex

Alexandra Cairns
External Affairs Manager, Kupona Foundation

For every donation made in honor of a mother, her name will be entered into our prize drawing. The winner will receive a gift from the Mabinti Center, winner of Accessories Designer of the Year at Swahili Fashion Week 2014. Just type ‘In honor of {insert Mum’s name here}’ in your donation description for her chance to win!

Changing the status quo for Tanzanian women

Two weeks ago, I made my first trip to Dar es Salaam, Tanzania with the Kupona team to witness the impact of our partner, CCBRT, first-hand. That’s how I found myself one afternoon seeking shade from the East African sun with a dozen ladies, ranging in age from 16 to 65. These women were at CCBRT recovering from surgery to repair obstetric fistula, a debilitating injury sustained during childbirth.

16 year-old Malela is recovering at CCBRT

To some, she is considered fortunate
Malela, a 16-year-old girl with a shy smile, was the first recovering fistula patient I spoke with.

In the US, a girl her age would be thinking about friends, boys, passing her driver’s test and studying for SAT’s. Sitting together in Dar es Salaam, Malela told me about the day she lost her baby.

One of the 39,000 babies who die every year in Tanzania. In a voice barely louder than a whisper she told me that after two days of obstructed labor at a rural clinic near her home, she passed out from exhaustion. Her stillborn child was removed with forceps. The first thing she remembered when she woke was feeling her flat stomach, and asking, “Where is my baby?” Her mother told her the baby had died, and had been taken away. She never saw her child. To some, she is considered fortunate; ‘Fortunate’, simply because she survived. Every year in Tanzania, 8,000 women are not so fortunate.

Why is this about luck?
As we waited to meet with the next patient, I asked my interpreter if this woman had also lost her child. The interpreter shook her head.

“No, her baby survived. She is lucky.”

During my half-hour interview with 30-year-old Salma, I watched her 3-month-old baby girl rubbing her face against her mother’s shoulder and clutching Salma’s blue hospital gown in a tiny fist. I just kept thinking, why is this about luck?

Taking luck out of the equation
Before I went to Tanzania, I knew that 8,000 Tanzanian women die each year due to complications in pregnancy or childbirth. But I didn’t comprehend the full gravitas of that number until I sat side-by-side with two of the ‘lucky’ ones. The 16-year-old girl who didn’t die; the mother who didn’t lose her baby.

My beautiful mom, Tracy, delivered me in a safe, clean facility. Thousands of women in Tanzania are not so fortunate.

My mother had her first child when she was my age. Amidst the normal doubts and fears that come with pregnancy, she never wondered if she would have to share her hospital bed with five other women in labor. Giving birth on the floor of a packed, humid ward, or dying as a result of a hemorrhage at a clinic without blood supplies wasn’t a concern. She didn’t worry about generators failing, or medicine running out, or delivery rooms being short-staffed because it was the night shift.

I’m not a mother yet, but living in the US, I don’t worry about those things either. At Kupona Foundation, we believe that no woman ever should.

Every mother deserves the chance to greet her newborn child
I give to Kupona because I’ve met the women who, without this support, would be left with the gaping emotional and physical tears that obstetric fistula leaves in its wake. I give because this condition is so easily preventable. I’ve heard the stories of loss, listened as these women shared their hopes for the future, and I’ve been humbled by the overwhelming gratitude they expressed at simply being healed.

With the support of our donors, and the dedicated team at CCBRT, we are making quality, respectful, maternal healthcare accessible to the women of Tanzania. We are taking luck out of the equation. By decongesting overcrowded wards, training skilled healthcare workers, and building capacity throughout the Dar es Salaam region, we are giving mothers the opportunity to meet their newborn children, the opportunity to be healthy moms to healthy babies.

We say it so often at Kupona because we believe it: Every mother deserves the chance to greet her newborn child. This Mother’s Day, please take the opportunity to show your support. Honor the mothers in your life, and help us take luck out of the equation for thousands of women every year.

With gratitude,
Sami

Samantha Bossalini
Communications and Development Associate, Kupona Foundation

For every donation made in honor of a mother, her name will be entered into our prize drawing. The winner will receive a gift from the Mabinti Center, winner of Accessories Designer of the Year at Swahili Fashion Week 2014. Just type ‘In honor of {insert Mum’s name here}’ in your donation description for her chance to win!

Planning Futures, Saving Lives

Nurse Stella in front of Tim’s Corner

In our last three posts leading up to International Women’s Day last Sunday, Kupona celebrated a few of the many women that inspire us. We had so many stories of inspirational people to choose from that we couldn’t stop there. Now, every quarter, we are going to shine the spotlight on inspiring individuals that are overcoming countless obstacles and making a monumental impact upon the Tanzanian community.

To kick off this regular installment, we highlight the accomplishments and contributions of Nurse Stella, lead nurse at Tim’s Corner Family Planning Center at CCBRT. Nurse Stella offers quality, confidential family planning counseling to CCBRT patients and staff. Through her work, Tim’s Corner makes family planning information universally available to patients and staff at CCBRT. This means patients with disabilities and marginalized populations are empowered to make informed decisions about their sexual and reproductive health.

Keeping it in the family

A registered nurse since 1986, Stella comes from a family of nurses.

“In my family, my sister is a nurse, my younger mother (aunt) is a nurse. It is a profession that is common in my family. When I was doing general nursing, I did maternity care. This is how I became interested in family planning.”

Empowering families through education

Stella has seen many clients pass through the doors at Tim’s Corner. Some clients, however, stand out.

“An 18-year-old fistula patient came to me. Her baby died during delivery at the hospital in the remote area where she gave birth…Most women in the rural areas don’t know about family planning. She was also very young, She was not married so I talked to her about family planning.”

Through Stella’s counseling, the patient opted for contraceptives that would help her avoid pregnancy as her body healed from fistula, and plan future pregnancies safely. For women who have never had family planning counseling before, dispelling the myths surrounding contraception is often the first hurdle.

“Last week,” Stella says, “I met a man of 25 years. He had a 22-year-old wife with two children…He thought his wife should get family planning, but his wife didn’t want to use it. I asked him to bring the wife to me so that I could explain the advantages and disadvantages of family planning. When I talked with her, she said that her mother did not use family planning so she did not use it. She didn’t know anything about family planning before we spoke. After I talked to her, she decided that family planning was a good choice for their family.  I was feeling very proud about that. I was happy that I could share this information with her so that she could feel knowledgeable about options for her health and her family.”

The Bigger Picture

As a nurse, her clients’ health is Stella’s first priority, and safely spaced pregnancies are critical to reducing a woman’s risk of complications during pregnancy and childbirth. But family planning can have a much wider impact upon the overall well-being of a family unit.

“When a woman uses family planning, it helps to improve her health status and care for her family. Family planning helps to limit the size of families and make sure the size of the family is right for the family’s income.”

Healthier women mean healthier families and stronger communities.

“If a mother gives birth to many children, sometimes the family cannot afford to send all of the children to school or buy them clothes or food. Those are things that could be difficult. If we can talk about family planning, women will only have the number of children that they can manage.”

“At this time, many women do talk about family planning. Before this time, family planning was only talked about for married women. Now unmarried women will talk about it because they realize they need it too. Still some women are ashamed to talk about it.”

Stella will keep the conversation going at Tim’s Corner, keeping in mind that family planning’s first beneficiaries are often young women. By postponing their pregnancies, girls and young women can finish their education, pursue job opportunities, and fully participate in their society.

We are so grateful to have Stella’s expertise at Tim’s Corner Family Planning Center, and thank her for her dedication to family and maternal health!